WE ALL WANT THE SAME THING. The fundamental human motivation is away from pain and towards pleasure. In short, we all just want to feel better. Everything we do we do it for that reason. We all want the same thing, to be happy.
“WHY AM I NOT HAPPIER?” I mean, I was doing great; I had a great career, I was making great money, I was in a great shape, I had great many things – so how come I didn’t feel so so very great?! Victor Frankl, psychologist and author of the classic Man’s search for meaning, […]
I am convinced that what can hold us back is simply our stories. Nothing else. It can sound like; I don’t know how. I’m not good enough. What if he says NO. What if I run out of money. Who am I to be doing this? That’s a common story that appears for me from […]
Our brains lack a strategy to handle change. So it processes change the in the same way it handles loss or grief. Going through the five stages of grief: Denial. Anger. Bargaining. Depression. Acceptance. To me this shows WHY change can be so scary. Because it actually means death to the old!
Anything worth DOING is worth doing BADLY. How often do we hesitate and hold ourselves back because we think we CAN’T … We don’t think we’re ready. We think we need to be this or have that BEFORE we can do it … ??? Yes. You can suck at something. But the question is: Do […]