You do not get what you want. You get what you are! 

No THING will change you. Not even money.

Take money as an example; it will only make you MORE of who you ARE. 

If you are a grumpy pessimistic person before you have money. Then having more money will only mean that you now have more money to be miserable with.

A house as another example. Let’s say you wanted a house, and you got it.

It might feel good for a while, but unless you’re the kind of person who values gratefulness or “enoughness,” you will soon look around and go…

“I need a bigger house.”

 “I’d probably be more happy in a bigger house, or in a nicer neighborhood.”

No THING will change you. Who you ARE will.

It is your actions. Don’t look at something and wish you had it, or dream that. 

“One day, I will have this or that, and when I do… THEN I’ll…”

Don’t have it be a place to GET TO, but rather have it a place to come from.

Meaning, BE it. DO it. NOW.

But Adam, you don’t understand…

Perhaps you’d tell me, “Adam, you don’t understand, this and that happened to me… I can’t….”

To that, I say;

What happened to you might influence who you are, but it doesn’t determine who you become. 

Who you become is YOUR choice. And taking action will make that choice come alive!

How we spend our days is how we spend our lives.

Realize that you are the one who’s creating your life as it is right now. You always have a choice.

Will you choose to BE more of the person you want to become, or are you gonna wait some more? Wanting some more?

I love to hear from you, so please let me know what is going on in your world, what it is that YOU are ready to become.